Tuesday, July 1

RE: BK

(This post is dedicated to BK...the big guy with a big heart)

A big guy with a big heart...and probably a big mouth. Don't worry, in the good way. YES, you can talk. And from what i know, you can talk to alot of different people. AND a good listener as well. You got that one right.
About the leadership thingy...taking everyone into consideration is a gift as much as it is a curse. It has high consumption power, only applicable to people with big hearts. But from what i have learned, this method doesn't always produce the best results. And i believe you are aware of that. Knowing that best decisions are not always the outcome but still taking everyone into account...simply means that you prioritize the team rather than the project. You believe in keeping your team members close to one another, and close to you. You neglect noone, and by that, keeping everyone pleased. You produce good team dynamics and foster a team that works with you and not for you. Your style of leadership amplifies your nature as being people-oriented.
About the sentimental thingy...i think COMPASSION may suit better. You find yourself easily touched and emotionally bonded. And you do not suppress them but to release them naturally. That is another trait of being people-oriented.
Knowing the perfect way to serve yourself in relaxation...and to express your heartfelts...indeed you are quite (but only quite) extrovert. Being expressive to your friends, but it seems to me that you retain some parts within you, some parts you rather share exclusively to the chosen few.

Sorry for writing such a LONG comment. I am in no means judging, less i be judged. But i couldn't help analyzing people. Probably a little compensation for myself for not being able to pursue psychologies.
As a return, why not reply telling me what you think of me?
If you find the post being too long this time, you may exclude the weaknesses part (just joking).

2 comments:

Bernard "xiaoqiu" said...

yo chai... haha ,, thanks for the insights....

erm...what i think of u? actually i cant gather my thoughts now.. have been busy with lots of stuff though it is holiday now..

there are lots of things i wanna say..maybe next time... however, just wanna tell u that, of all the sniors i have worked with in various areas, i respect u the most as a leader..

S.i.m.o.n said...

That is a very honoring statement. Thank you.
It's ok. Take your time. I am in no rush to find out anyway. =)